To be an Unconditional Receiver, you must uncover the way(s) you are being a Conditional Receiver. Once that is revealed, you can employ one of the disrupting patterns exercises provided. With repetition, this process will allow you to break free of patterns that have been governing your life for years.
The Perfectionist believes a condition of flawlessness must be met in order to feel loved, valued, safe and worthy of receiving. This type is forever, tweaking and fine tuning.
The Overgiver believes that in order for their needs to be met they must give first, give more, or give back. All this giving, they believe, will result in feeling loved, valued, safe and worthy of receiving. This type sends a thank you card for a thank you card.
The Prover/Earner believes that they must earn and work hard for their worthiness and love. This type is the first one at work and the last one to leave.
The No-Needer type believes that being value, love and secure comes from their strength. Appearing strong and needing nothing is the way this type believes that they will receive. Requiring support and help is a sign of weakness for this individual and they only request support when no other option is available to them.
The Sacrificer type believes that they are too much or what they want is too much. They believe that only through total compromise or sacrifice will they be able to feel valued, loved, safe and worthy of receiving. This type is known to go along with what everyone else prefers.
“We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.” - Dalai Lama